Friday, 9 December 2022

My take on punishment.

There is already so much good stuff written about the negative impacts of using punishment and aversive training, so I didn’t want to visit that ground as such, but to take a broader look at it.

I want to start by recognising that whilst dog trainers can seem obsessed with seeing everything in terms of reinforcement and punishment, the general dog owning public do not. Like all human beings they very much act based on what they perceive to be right, that fits their ‘safe’ world view and ultimately on how they feel.

For many, when they do ‘punish’ their dog, these are often not deliberate acts of harm or cruelty, but a manifestation of their own emotional state – Angry, frustrated, embarrassed, annoyed etc. Often just because their dog is really pi$$ing them off !

This is important to recognise, because for me that is an important component of what punishment is. The expression of will and power over the behaviour of another, expressed in a negative, often forceful way, based on expectations and judgements of those who deliver the punishment.

We punish someone with jail because society has deemed their behaviour to be unlawful, in other words the judgments of others have decreed they should be punished. ( This in itself is not too controversial (on the surface) as we must keep the ‘law abiding’ safe, and we do need some measure of assuring a level of social cohesion and decency. However, there are many questions that need to be asked regarding the motivations behind who sets those laws and societal ‘norms’ in the future. For example, the treatment of Homosexuals in the UK before homosexual ‘acts’ were legalised in 1967 . Pre that date any expression of intimacy with someone I loved would mean I would be locked up and have a criminal record ! )

We are understanding more about the emotional drive to behaviour, not just in animals but humans too. Whilst the judiciary will still look at punishing those breaking the ‘law’, there are more agencies prepared to offer support for the underlying social, economic, and emotional health needs that often underpin the behaviours. It is the offer of this compassion and care that often does much more positive good than any punishment. Indeed, the majority of studies show those who have accessed good care and support services and rehabilitation programmes are significantly less like to ‘re-offend’ than those who just get the punishment.

From my view point, the deliberate punishment of dogs has nothing to do with training or teaching. Indeed, we must stop those who use aversive and balanced training trying to share the same ethical ‘space’ by claiming it is just a difference in opinions, methods and tools. It is way more fundamental than that. What it is, is a difference in belief and value systems.

Those using aversive methods have decided the ‘task’ is paramount. The use of punishment is directly and purely done to either get or remove a behaviour. It is totally focussed on the behaviour alone.

What they don’t care much about in that moment is how the dog feels, what relief they might be seeking or what need they might be communicating. In other words ' you can feel how ever you like, just stop communicating it'. Just like our own punishment system, they are an instant judge and juror on what is acceptable. ( It is important we recognise there is the same risk of not recognising these things using reinforcement. Again, if we are just task driven, then the care and support need of the other is less likely to be acknowledged.)

For me it is this simple. It is rooted in the dynamic where one part of the ‘relationship’ decides what is and isn’t acceptable, with no room for the expression of need, or expression of self, that the other may be trying to communicate. It is this same dynamic that brought us the notion that Children 'should be seen and not heard’. That women ‘should be seen and not heard’ , and now offers us ‘dogs should be seen and not heard’.

In my opinion, aversive or balanced ‘training’ is nothing but the deliberate act of someone seeking to forcefully exert their expectations of what the ‘appropriate’ behaviour is, and will seek to ‘correct’ anything that falls outside of that. This is regardless of what that behaviour may actually be representing for the one receiving the punishment. It is totally, and firmly, rooted in control and task. When you are that focussed on task, there is little or no room for care.


So, this is where we need to show how we are different. How we can detach ourselves from being purely task orientated. To show that we do care for the emotional experience of the animal in front of us. That we will listen, without judgement or expectation. That will try and be available to their emotional truth and seek to identify their care and support needs. This is what truly makes us different to those who use deliberate punishment, not the mere difference in methods and tools. This means moving away from the obsessions with ‘how’ to change behaviour (Task) and be more focussed on, and celebrate, the ‘whys’ that lie beneath (Care).

I hope that by focussing more on education and awareness regarding those care and support needs, and the importance of an individual’s emotional experience, more aversive trainers will come to see the need to make this shift and see why it is important. Fighting over methods and tools often leads to more entrenched standpoints, and the operant merry-go-round continues to pull people in.

Time instead to move away from these arguments and obsessions with task. Let’s put care front and centre in all we do, in the language we use, the way we educate - then the discussion around deliberate use of punishment becomes more mute, as it has no valid part to play in a care approach. This is not about 'rights and wrongs', but about what we believe and value when considering the needs of others - even another species.

This is what a dog centred care approach is all about.


Andrew Hale Dog Centred Care